▶ Your Answer :
In this society, people always consider
that which behavior is the best way to keep in touch with their friends because
of their social network.
Some people think that people cannot be
always honest to their friends.
However, in my opinion, it will not be
possible to tell the truth to their friends every time.
People always think about making social
relationships with their friends and keeping it for a long time.
Sometimes, if they tell only truth to their
friends, it will be possible to make their friends feel uncomfortable.
This is because they do not want to listen
to these facts from their friends.
As a result, people would regret telling
the truth to their friends after they become distant with their friends.
For these situations, people cannot be
inevitable to tell a lie to their friends to make a good relationship with
their friends.
For example, when I was a high school
student, I always told a truth to my friends.
At the time, I was very good at math and
science.
I told my friends that they were not good
at math, so they had to study hard and their methods to study math were wrong.
I did not realize that they did not like me
and want to talk with me because of my advice towards them.
When I participated in graduation ceremony
of the high school, I could not take a picture with my friends, so I took a
photo alone.
I realized that the truth was not the best
way to keep a good relationship with my friends.
After entering a university, I often told a
lie to my friends according to situations.
When one of my friends, Bob, played a
trumpet in his club contest, I thought he was not good at playing it.
However, I thought about the situations
when I was a high school student, so I told him that he was a perfect player.
Finally, he totally appreciated me, and he
told me that he wanted to be a friend to me forever.
Had I told a lie to my friends when I was a
high school student, I would not have lost a lot of friends and would have had
broad relationship with the friends like when I was a university student.
To sum up, people always consider their
human network in this society, so they have to consider situations when they
should tell a lie to their friends.
In conclusion, it is not avoidable to tell
a lie to their friends. |