▶ Your Answer :Some people argue that to making others happy is the best way to make oneself happy. However I disagree with this for the following reasons. First, being sucessful makes me happy. Second , having a freetime to visit foreign countries makes me happy.
First of all, as society has become more contentious than ever before, people have to acquire outcompeting advantage over other candidates. People face fierce competitions in a job market because there are too much candidates wth not so many jobs available. Consequently, it has become very difficult to find suitable and rewarding jobs. Therefore, In order to be happy, I want to become a desirable job applicant for a successful achievement in my field rater than to become happy by making others happy. As I have lived through a competitive society, my success always come from winning over others rather than by making others happy. i feel very happy when I make success by myself and this is always my priority in my life. Thus, making others happy won't make myslef happy.
Second, as a way to be happy I need freetime. People find emotional relief by their own ways to effectively boost their moods. As I I am weary of various problems, I found my own way to make myself happy. This is by travelling to different countries whenever I have free time. By having a freetime by myself , I can temporaily forget about problems at work and gain some breathing space. Nothing is as important than doing so . at this moment I would like to talk about my personal experience. I wake up in the morning to get through congested traffics. When I arrive at work, I have tremendous amount of documents to read through. To make matters wose i have to cope with my subordinates and bosses. However, as a way to relief my stress, I regularly vist foreign countries. Very recently, I visted Paris, for a week . although it was a short trip, this short period of enjoyment made me feel better and better prepare for the upcoming days. This way is the most effective way for me to be happy, and making others happy would not do so.
In conlclusion, the reasons stated above fully explains why making others happy to make myself happy is not true.
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