A lot of controversy exists over whether loaning money from friends is beneficial of not. Although some people may argue that borrowing money from friends makes their relationship much tighter/stronger (harder는 두가지 뜻으로 해석이 되고, 또 쓰임상 harder보다 이런것들이 더 자연스러울듯해요:) much harder, I strongly believe that the disadvantages of loaning money from friends are more significant. There are several reasons for this opinion, and I would like to describe two of the most important ones. First, loaning from friends usually puts one's makes friendship in a difficult situation. seriously. Moreover, loaning money from friends rusually is not taken seriously.usually considers easily.
Most importantly, borrowing money from friends sometimes makes friendship worse. Money is usually considered as a goal of life or a significant factor /element consideration for people. If people cannot return their debts on time or forget their owes, trust between the loaner and the loanee will be destroyed. For example, when I was young, one of my father's old friends had a hard time running his business, so he wanted to borrow a large amount of money from my father. He lent a the money without any warrant/IOU because he surely trusted his friend. However, my father's friend's business closed down, and the friend just skipped town.he flew away. My father said with regret if he had not loan his money to his friend, he would not have lost his friend, and since money was not a problem, but losing a friend was a were the big problem.
Moreover, loaning money from friends usually is not does not considered seriously. It is because there are no enforcement to return money and nor penalty such as interest, which makes people feel less responsible responsibility to return the debts. For instance, an old friend of mine one of my old friends was a good guy and had lots of friends. However, he was a guy who had bad memory in his financial life, especially returning borrowed his money. As time passed, his friends lost trust in him in other matters and eventually broke their friendship. friends who were around him were left from him.
In conclusion, I consider loaning money from friends has a negative impact on our lives. Since if we lend borrow (lend .. to.. /borrow .. from .. )money from friends, then they will have a much greater chance to make their relationship usually gets worse and people usually does not think that money seriously. Regardless of what others say, I think people should understand the negative influence on borrowing money from their acquaintances.
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