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Some people think that always telling the truth is the most important
consideration in any relationship between people. But, in my opinion, always
telling truth in any relationship makes a neglect effect to make a good relationship.
Moreover, I think that understanding skill is more important consideration to
make a better relationship than telling the truth. Let me talk about specific reasons
which support my opinion.
First, when people tell the truth to others, that can be make bad
relationship with others. Even though someone tells the fact to help their
friends or colleges, sometimes they don’t want to hear real fact. For example,
I have an experience which was a chance to realize “Telling the truth” is not
always good result for make a good relationship. When I was a university student,
I saw that my friend’s boyfriend was met other girl who was not my friend. So,
I was so surprised and told the fact I found. But, she already knew about that
and but she wanted to kept that reasons secret. Because she not wanted to broken
up with him so did not tell the truth anybody. Because of me, she was broken up
with her boyfriend finally. She was so upset to me because if I did not tell
the truth, she can keep relationship with her boyfriend. Eventually, I’m not her
friend anymore. This is why I mentioned that tell the truth is not always make
a good relationship.
Second, I think that tell the truth is not ‘the most’ important
consideration in relationship. In my opinion, understanding skill is most important
in relationship than tell the truth. If someone lack of understanding skill,
that make serious result to make a relationship. For example, someday my boss
looked so tired and sick. At that time some issues coming up which my boss had
to solve very quickly. But, I understood my boss’s situation and solved those
problems myself without told the truth. As a result, my boss realized that I
finished issues for him. He was so thanks for me and that experience make a
good relationship with my boss. This is why I suggested that tell the truth is not
‘the most’ important thing to make a good relationship.
To sum up, I disagree that tell the truth is not ‘always’ and ‘the
most’ important things to make a relationship. Sometimes, telling the truth
make a neglect result with relationship. And I believe that understanding skill
is most important and effective way to build a relationship.
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