Both of methods are needed for making your kids to succeed. As you know, It is very difficult to get good reputations for work and human being as well. As far as children teaching concerned, trying both of
ways might cause confusion to your children. As time goes by, they can find their own ways that were
based on parents teaching. By and large, I think raising children to co-operative person is much better than compete way for the reasons I've mentioned above.
There is only one reason that compete person is encouraged more. The reason why is strong person
will survive in the society. And it seems nothing will be change unless society turns into the right way. The right way is totally changing the modern society atmosphere which is only aiming competition.
Ofcourse good sense of struggling is recommended for developing our country, But on the other hand,
there are so many drawbacks beside the good effect. Competitive things usually make
mis-understanding, disorder , argument and cheating even. It is suppose to hurt or cheat someone to be succeed in our life. Therefore to change our weaknesses, it is recommended to make our descendants
to thougtful and considerable adults. Consequently our society will be change into right way step by
step, as long as they become more talented human. |