Your Answer ▼ Recently, whether it is important for parents to raise children independently or not has been an issue of controversy. While some people say that letting children deicide(like food, clothes and entertainment) make them selflish in a society, other claim that it is significant that childern have own decision. This eassay will compare both views with some supportive examples. To begin with, some people saying that children may solely choose things what they like. This is because they are not good at deciding matter. To be specific, most children like fast food including Hamburger, pizza but dislike vegetable, If parents allow them to eat preferable food, they may escape from health food so their health condition get worse. Moreover, they enjoy making friends and playing on the playground, which cause loss of interests in studying. Parents are able to see child's low test score. Hence, they insist that making a decision themselves less occur growth of child's physical and metal condition. On the other hand, howerver, others claim that making own decisions can identify themselves because children' choice is respected. To be precise, one child prefer to dance and parent let him enjoy dancing. This contrubute to pursing their dream and he can become dancer in the future. In addition, since parents force them to do what parents want, realtionship between parent and child will be very smooth, Due to emotional saftey, children can maintain sociable person. Therefore, these people argue that their own decision can find self-indentfication fastly and early. To conclude, from what has been compared above, it seems true that children's own decisions have both merits and dismerits at the same time. However I believe that children's decision should be respected but when expected harmful reults, parents should teach them right behavior.
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