These days, many parents claim to children that they can achieve anything if they constantly thrive. However, it is often debated that encouraging children in this way might not benefit children or even harm them.
As for the advantages of this message, it can make children motivative and passionate to everything. Hard working is always good thing, it definitely makes them fill confident to every challenges or tasks they face. The experiences of hard-working and thriving every moments to achieve successes in everything even make children grow stronger. Also, this might affect children to be more diligent and sincere. They believe about the weight of sweats, and also learn the importance of time.
However, there are also disadvantages of saying this to children. First of all, it is often worried that children might get frustrated when they cannot achieve even when they try hard enough. All children have different talents, for example some might be good at swimming but others are not. For those who are not good at swimming probably have shorter length of arms or legs than that of good swimmers. Even if they try hard to win those with good talents on swimming, it cannot be achieved by just hard practicing, just because of physical talents. They might be very depressed about what they’ve been told.
Secondary, when children notice that hard-working might not always bring success in anything, they might no longer believe what other people say to them. For instance, at the very first time when children are told to be a hard-worker, they might believe this message and follow what they’ve been told. However, at the moment of when they fail, they might think that this message is not true and no longer follow to that message. This can cause children to disobey and even defying to their parents.
In conclusion, encouraging children with this hopeful message is sometimes motivate them but might not always beneficial. Personally, I think parents should convey this message to their children in an appropriate situation.
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