I do not understand why so many people want to have babies
in the first place.
Babies cry all the time and they are such a pain in the ass.
Okay, maybe they act cute, but that last only a short moment
and it's back to the crying and shitting and drooling.
Yes, I was like that when I was a baby, but
I am not particularly proud of that period of my life.
I am grateful that my parents took good care of me AFTER I was born,but
the decision to give a birth was basically to satisfy their desire, not mine.
I did not have any control over that fact.
I lead a quite happy life, and I do not regret being born. But facts are facts.
Why do I need to thank my parents for my birth? If I were not born,
that would have not mattered to me. There is no "me" there to feel any regret
or sadness.
To be honest, if you have a normal reproductive organ
it's relatively easy to get pregnant. Being pregnant and giving birth do not
require any special talent. I do not understand women who
act all of a sudden very important just because they are pregnant.
In my opinion, only those women who produced great human beings
(i.e. Gandhi, Mother Teresa, Martin Luther King Jr. or other great people
in history) should be proud of themselves.
Okay... Somebody had sex with you during your fertile period.
Where is the part you should be so proud of
other than the fact that you are a woman in a reproductive age??
There are countless other women like you.
And this myth of perfect motherhood... All these naive
women believing the myth that mother is the only one who should
be taking care of a baby. They say, "grandmothers, nannies, or any other
people should not take care of a baby. ONLY a mom will do."
When are those stupid bitches going to wake up and realize that it's a myth
set up by men threatened by the increasing percentage of women in workplaces?
They secretly rejoice when women give up their career and become a stay-home mom.
They think "Yeah!! One less competitor in the job market!!"
And there are so many wives who follow their husbands to US without
a prospect of having jobs! What stupid women!! Just because you're
married does not mean you can be a stay-home mom with no job at all. What if your
husband cheats on you, or worse, what if he wants to divorce you?
What if he dies all of a sudden after an accident?
Hopefully, that kind of situation won't happen, but who knows what's
going to happen in the future??
At this point, some may suggest that it's possible to have a career
and a baby (or two). You may say, you don't have to be a perfect mom, just
be a good mom. Or you may say, you can balance the life of a mother
with a life of a professional.
But why the hell should you have a baby in the first place??
You have to work to make a living, but you do not need to have a baby
to survive.
Again, babies are nasty, selfish, irrational. And when they turn into a
normal human being (after they grow up), they just lead their happy adult lives.
If you're lucky, your children will call you once in a while and visit you sometimes.
BUT THAT'S IT!
Honestly, I do not understand why people want to have babies.