▶ Your Answer :
Invite many people for a party vs have
few friends and family.
Some
people think that they prefer to have few friends and family than to invite
many people for a party. However, in my opinion, it is better to invite many
people for a party than to have few friends and family. There are two reasons.
First, having a large network of human relationship is important for solving
problems. Second, it can improve your social skills.
To
begin with, having a large network of human relationship is important for
success. The meaning of success has completely changed compared to the past. In
the past, it was merely focusing on one’s own way to exceed others, now it is
different. Along with your own ability, it is crucial to have people who can
lend you a hand when you are in trouble. For example, I remember a couple of
months ago I had a crisis on my hand. There were some limits to solving the
problem since I did not have enough knowledge in other fields except my own.
Unfortunately, the people around me and my relatives, even family did not
understand my predicament. I suddenly remembered the people I had met at recent
parties I attended because people at parties are very random and all have
different specialties. I helplessly asked them to land a hand. They sincerely
helped me out and gave me clear-cut instructions. I could implement their
advice right away and in the flash of time, everything was solved. Thanks to
the people I met in the party, and the acquaintances of those I met in the
party, I was able to solve my crisis rather quickly.
On
top of that, inviting many people for a party can helps me improve my social
skills. It is the perfect opportunity to socialize with others when I have a
party with many people. This is because I can have more chances to meet diverse
people and learn about them. I feel certain that it is always great to make new
friends. If I invite many people for a party, I can meet lots of people with
diverse backgrounds. On the other hand, if I have few friends and family, I
would have narrow perspective toward the world. For instance, I transferred my
high school from Mokdong school, where only Koreans attend to international
school where students who are from various nations attend. When I was in the
first high school, I and my friends had same backgrounds so we did not have any
difference between each other. However, in the second high school, I met many
friends with diverse nations and we cannot help feeling gap. So we had trouble
in understanding each other, however, as the time went by, it turned into a
blessing. I could learn cultural diversity and make new friends. Thus, it
improved my social skills and helped me broaden my perspectives.
To
sum up, taking a large network of human relationship and improving social
skills into consideration, I believe inviting many people for a party is better
than having few friends and family.
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