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People usually emphasis the importance of the good manner. The kindness, however, I think that this action does not have any usefulness in current society, because it is sort of redundant living their life. Furthermore, people may feel uncomfortable with other's favor. which discourage them from expressing some goodwill.
First of all, People could live by themselves without others kindness. In the past, especially on the pioneer era, every settlers should have to cooperate in order to survive. However, these days, facilities are well equipped and the quality of the life of people have become way better. Hence, no more kindnesses were required. For example, I could live in my own space without direct communication with others or asking for help to my neighbors. Last vacation, I move to the new city which packed with residents and infrastructures which support their living. Not showing any kindness for other people nearly about three month, I have not got any blames or troubles. In fact, it is natural for these days. The only people who I truly pay my attention to are my family and handful of my friends. As the society has been changed, there are no room for the communities members to show gratitude or favorable manners.
Second, people are not kinder than before because they do not trust each other more then they did on the past. Currently, there are thousand of crimes which using a name of kindness under their wrong behaviors. Fraud, embezzlement, and kidnap are prevailing, and their method become smarter and smarter, which indicates that kindness should be considers as potential dangerous. According to the research conducted by the Criminal Justice Department in South Korea in 1990, 80% of the crimes have initiated by the relationship which seems to be hospitable. The victims easily believed the criminals at the first place. As people aware of this result, they tend to raise their kids to be alert of kindness from strangers as well as encouraging themselves not be involved in this suspicious behavior. In addition, the Justice department also issued the campaign of be aware of suspicious kindness. Finally, the same study taken in 2010, the researchers concluded that people refrain themselves from being kind to others and feel uneasy of other's hospitality. As a result, the society become less generous and kind.
For these reasons, I believe that the people are less kinder than back in the past. This is because society become convenient to make a living by one's own without other's kindness and society is being filled with dangers under the name of it. |