▶ Your Answer :It is controversial that whether parents
should decide their children’s own futures. Some people might agree with this
statement, because parents know better than their children, so they should help
children. However, I disagree it for the following reasons. First, planning
their own future makes child build responsibility and independency. Second,
relationship between child and their parents can be better when child decide
their own future.
First, child can learn a lot from planning
future. There are many obstacles in life, and we should choose many things. Deciding
own future can be good study for children. From it, child can build a
responsibility, and independency. If parents decide their child’s future,
chance of growth will be limited. In my experience, friend who grew up in
interfering parents has a trouble in making decisions than friend who grew up
independently to parents. Children should have to practice making decision own their
own. Deciding own future can be good practice.
Second, relationships can be bad if parents
decide their child’s future. When parents try to make decision for their child,
it can make trouble. Because child can think differently with parents. Parents
annoyed because they think child disobey their advice without any reasons. On
the other hand, children complain that parents do not believe them. In my case,
I have a friend who has a bad relationship with his parents. When his parents
interfering him, he fights against for his parent’s interference, so
relationship between my friend and his parents are bad. Therefore, to build a
good relationship, it is important for parents to let their child decide own
future.
To sum up, although parents might be more wise and
clever than child, they shouldn’t decide child’s future for the following
reasons. Interfering child’s future can hinder children to build independence
and responsibility and make a bad relationship between parents and child |