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Some people think that stricter rules will
make her or his child more successful. However, I disagree with this statement.
Because stricter rules can spoil the child and success in life is mainly
achieved by how parents act.
Major reason that I think it is not a
countable stratagy to make someone’s child succssful is that setting strict
rules can ruin child’s personality sometimes even more than no rules. For
instance, as everyone knows, many child act against parents’ strict rules by
not following the rules. Sometimes they even willing to show the fact they do
not resfect parents at all. Given that some child obtain wrong personal trait
as consequence of thses strict rules, it can not be said that strict rules will
guarantee child’s success.
Additionaly, child’s success is not done by
child itself. It is done with parents. Although some parents think their
child’s success is responsibility of child alone. It is necessary to have good
guideline for child to success. For example, if a child sees it’s parents
always break rules on the road, It is not likely that child will grow up to be
a man who always keeps the rule while driving car. it can spoil the child even
worse than do this without any strict rules because if you set some rules and
breaks whenever you want, child will learn something from this ironic behavior.
To summerize, I think it should be considered
dangerous to set strict rules to child even though it is for child’s shake.
This is because they can act against to these rules to the extreme and childs
success is to be thought of team work which child and parents along
participate. For these two reasons, I think it should be considered meaningless
to set up strict rules for child’s success.
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