▶ Your Answer : It has become hot topic whether the best way to be happy is to make others happy or not. Some may say that others's happiness is most important factor to be happy. However, I disagree with given statement as it is obvious that other's happiness can not affect to be happy. First of all, other's happiness can not bring real happiness because evne if others be happy, there will be no any change in their life. To be specific, people are selfish. When people makes other to be happy, watching others can cuase them to envy and to feel jealous. This is because there is no any visible change in their life. This is the reasons why others happiness is can not bring happiness. For example, when I was a high school, there was a friend who did not have confident. I encouraged him to have confident to be happy by saying positive things he has. As a result, he could have confident and he became the most popualr student in school. He looked happy. However, there was no any change for me and even I envied him. As a result, I could not be happy. Second, for making others to be happy, it is essential to sacrifice for others and it disturbs to be happy. When people try to make others to be happy, a sacrifice is required to any situations. If they do not sacrifice at that situations, making others to be happy is nearly impossible. This is becuase happiness is resulted from someone's sacrfice. For example, when I was in army, there was a predecessor. Every time I was with him, I sacrificed for him to make him to be happy like cleaning and doing the laundry. After I got in the organizaition, he could do the things he could not do becuase of lack of time. He looked happy. However, as time goes by, I felt tired and could not be happy because of accumulalion of sacrifice. This is why making others to be happy can not bring happiness. In conclusion, I disagree the given statement based on the reasons mentioned above. |