▶ Your Answer : I disagreed with this sentence. If parents want to see their children succeed in life, they have to let their children free. I'll explain with three reasons. First of all, there are many ways to succeed and no one can make rule about all of it. For example, some people says that parents have to push their children to study hard. But some child succeed in life by playing game or creating something instead of studing. If parents made rules instead of their children, they can make mistake. They actually don't know what their children really want to do and what they need. Children has to make their own identifical rules by themselves. Second, eventhought parent made strict rules, that can be broken by children easilly. If parent give hard pressure to thier children, they can be aggresive and hang out with bad people. We can't see them in our lives. For instance, there are many students who are in trouble with their parents. Parents want them be best at something or be someone who they want. But that person is not their children want to be. It becomes just pressure to their children and makes them not talk with their parents. Farther more, there are some students who went out of their houses or suicide themselves because of this pressure. Lastly, the rules which is made by children is more powerful. Many authors of book named like 'to success' says that they made their own rules for their succeed. The rules made by own's self is easily keeped and sustainable. In my experiance, i made a succeed life because of my own rules. When i was a high school student, i made a promise to do not watch TV untill go to university. It was a big rule for me. When i wanted to watch TV, i bear it because it was the rule i made. If it was by my parent, i just would watche TV. At the end, i went to university what i wanted to go. It was a significant experiance that rules which i made is really important to me and untill now i'm making new rules by myself. As the result, i think parents have to let their children make their own rules because there are many ways to succeed, children can against to there parents if they made strict rules for them and the rules can be powerful made by themselves. |