▶ Your Answer :
For most people, friends play important roles in their lives. As
far as I am concerned, there are obviously many opinions regarding drawbacks of
having ability to make many new friends easily, especially, when they have a serious
problem. With that being said, I would have to say that people have to get an ability
to maintain friendships over a long period of time with although the number of
people is small. The concepts of help and happiness clearly illustrate problems
of this.
First of all, long period friends could easily help me when I faced
any kind of problems since we shared a lot of moments. Believe becomes stronger
as much as time we have spent. According to some survey conducted by Korea
University, a lot of people thought that they could help their friends who
needed aids in some conditions. The main condition is periods of their
relationships. If it is longer than 3 years, they thought that they could help without
any guarantees. In my case, financial aspect of my family was insufficient to support
my high school, I really hard in my school days. Then my friends always helped
me and give a lot of supports such as bread and pens. I know that some people
might think that it is important thing, the experience is helpful for my high school
life.
A further more subtle point we must consider is that having long
period friends make me happy easily. We could express our feelings when we were
in conversation with old friends. Since they are comfortable better than new friends.
In my case, I sometime have a stressful situation in conversation with new
friends such as how make my face, what kinds of subject are proper for nice
moods. However, there are no anxious with old friends. Therefore, when I got stress
from my work or routine, I usually spend time with my high school friends. I could
relieve my stress.
Instances of the same sort can be multiplied indefinitely. When taking
into account all these facts, we may safely arrive at the conclusion that
people need to maintain friendships with old friends. Although I must admit
that there may be some people who thinks that the ability to make many new
friends is more important, I strongly believe that no one can ignore the help
and happiness. |