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Many people are inclined to judge people from their appearances. Their inclination is not entirely wrong, because some part of human subconscious does manifest it self through human's facial appearances. Nevertheless, It is wrong to judge people solely by their looks, because in real world, only the action matters and also, like icebergs, most of people's true aspect is hidden inside.
To start with, first impressions only tell about people's small portion of them. Since what manifests trough people's looking is very superficial, since we can't tell what is the people thinking about by looking at one's looking. In this sense, most of people's deep thoughts and emotions are buried deep down in their minds, indicating that judging people solely on their looking is narrow-minded. For example, when I saw my girl friend for the first time, I thought she was bit cold and unfriendly, because she was answering very abrupt and cold to whatever I say to her. But over time, it turned out she was acting cool because she was shy.
Secondly, in real world what matters is the person's action, not their appearance. Many people forget this simple fact, because they are confusing between the world through TV programs and real life. On the contrary to this, normal people don't have such good looking and have their own personalities. In this sense, the most important aspect of judging people is their action, not their looking. Because their actions are actually capable of changing the world little by little. To support my opinion, an interview was conducted to CEOs, asking what do they see when their employees make mistakes. Most of them answered, they look how their employee try to make up the mistake he or she have made. needless to say, they didn't judge people by their looking. Because they know what matters is person's actions.
In summary, there are many people who make judges about people solely by their first impressions. However, their way of viewing has serious disadvantages, for the reasons I stated above. Therefore, I strongly believe that people's first impression is not that important matter. | |