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Most of us have been taught the importance of the truth since we started leaning speaking. Moreover, the important principle is told as well in conventional wisdom, 'honesty is the best policy'. However, I do not want to vote for the traditional ideal because there are some unavoidable situations needed in order to have a good relationship with others.-> good relationships with others.
서론 잘 쓰셨어요.^^
For one thing, telling the truth all the time can often result in hurting others' feelings, making others anxious or frustrated. Specifically, in the case of when someone asks for an opinion about their appearances->his or her appearance, if you say something like 'you are really fat and ugly', or 'you are a bad dresser' , which you think it is true, the other, whether he or she is your friend, family member or acquaintance, will be really hurt and frustrated with your bitterly true words. In that case, you may as well better tell a lie like, Oh, you are fine, or That color looks great on you, in order to maintain pleasurable and sound relationship.
예시를 들기 전에 일반화 문장을 좀 써주면 좋아요.
다른사람과 이야기를 하는 것은 정보전달과 객관적인 시각을 가지고 현명한 판단을 내리기 위해서만 하는것이 아니다.
The purposes of conversation are not only in conveying information and making wise decisions with objective point of view.
서로의 기분을 좋게 하고 서로 에너지를 주는 것 또한 매우 중요한 대화의 목적이 된다.
They are also in making one another feel good and giving energy each other
대화하면서 유쾌함과 재미를 주는 것은 정확한 묘사가 아니라 상대에 대한 관심과 사랑의 표현이다. 과장되는 경향이있는
When talking with other people, what gives pleasure is not the precise description but the expression of concern and love for someone which is likely to be exaggerated.
Specifically, in the case of when someone asks for an opinion about their appearances->his or her appearance,(앞의 주어가 단수니까요..) if you say something like 'you are really fat and ugly', or 'you are a bad dresser' , which you think it is true, the other, whether he or she is your friend, family member or acquaintance, will be really hurt and frustrated with your bitterly true words.
->좀더 풀어서, 내용을 좀 붙여서 써 보았어요.
늘려쓰는건 .. 좀 차근차근 말해주면 되는 것 같아요. 인과관계는 분명하게. 쓸데 없는 수식 없이.
>>Specifically, when someone asks for your opinion about his or her appearance, you could hurt her feelings or make her feel ill at ease in the situation by saying so honestly, not considering the other person's feelings.
>>At this time, you need to think what is the other's condition. If she looked sad recently and she seems to buy clothes for refreshing herself, you have to say she looks so good. She maybe already knows the clothes does not so much suit on herself, but she could get comfort from you, because she would be aware that you wanted to make her happy. While if she has dissatisfaction with her new clothes and seems to want to refund her purchase, you need to point out faults of the clothes in order for her to get more courage to demand a refund to the clerk.
>> Therefore, in order to have good relationships, we should percieve what is the other's real needs, and response for them properly,considering the situation and the mood, rather than becoming an honest man.
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