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Most people think that parents are the best teachers for their sons. Because they always made important dicisions for them until their sons fully grow-up. However, in my opinion, I disagree with the idea for two reasons. I think that friends are the most influence people who attect their sons. Friends give not only motivation but also how to corporate with others.
To begin with, Friends make their friends study hard. To be specific, they spend most of their time with friends in school. Childrens have in mind which he or she never want to behind their friends. Also they want to boast themselves in front of their friends. Therefore, they tend to study hard without any reward. The prime example for this case is my brother. He never wanted to study hard. Because he hadn't his own dream and just wanted to play with his classmates. One day, he fall in love with his classmates and then he studied very hard. He studied night and days, he endeavored to reach the prime grades in his school. Finally, he got the best score ever before and accomplished the first grade. Before he had girlfriend, my parents always persuaded him to study hard, but he never accepted advisement. This proves that friends are the best teacher for their son.
On top of that, childrens can learn socialization through their friends. Since they have to spend their times with their classmates, they make their friends and have relationships. This relationships is stronger then parents because when they entered school they departed from their parents and spend most of their times with friends together. Through relationships with their classmates, they can learn how to corporate with others who have different opinions. They hang out with their friends and share informations about experiences, they can undergo indirect experience real world. When they always directed their activities or otherthings from their parents, they would not experience real world and doesn't know how to make relationships with others. To illustrate this point, A researcher found that homeschooling chirdren have difficulty to adapt their company when they grew-up. I firmly insists that they didn't have chance to socialize when they were young. They often shielded from their parents and fewer contact with friends. It make them harder to socialize.
To sum up, I strongly believe that, friends are the most influence teacher to children. Because they are used to motivator for them also they teach how to make socialization with others. |