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People make a several important decisions such as entering university, marriage, and finding a job in living the life. When making these decisions, I don’t think that people should never make an important decision alone. If deciding alone, there are positive points like preventing conflict with others, catching good opportunity, and feeling accomplishment.
First of all, we can prevent conflicts with other people by making a decision alone. When the decision which I make with other people results in bad situation, it is completely my fault. This is because a performer who takes a decision is me. However, we tend to shift responsibility on others who helped us make it. In the other hand, if we come to a decision alone, it will not happen.
Next, if other people help us make a decision, we can miss the opportunity to best choice. Because of much advice which is to conflict or be various, we can be indecisive. That is, our judgment will be confused, and then the time and resources in making and decision will be increased. But, when we take a decision alone, we catch the opportunity to better selection quickly without confusing.
Finally, we can feel a sense of accomplishment by selecting an important decision alone. To take a decision by ourselves, we need to find information and to analyze what decision is better. These endeavors will result in satisfactory decision. Thus, we can fell pleasure about solving the important issue by ourselves. Although we succeed in making better decision with others, the accomplishment will be less than choosing alone.
In short, these are positive points when people make an important decision by themselves. No matter whom you talk with – friends or family- you should keep in your mind that it is possible they sometimes can damage your choice. |