▶ Your Answer : It is often said that the more friends people hang out with, the better it is for them. It is not quite a wrong idea. However, I firmly believe that going out with a close friend is funnier and better for them because with a close friend, we can have a deep conversation and play togther without a conflict. To begin with, spending time with a close friend, we can do many fun things togther without a fight. This is attributed to the fact that having known each other for a long time, a close friend can know and understand me better than other friends. Not only that, as times goes by, close friends end up feelling each other comfortable. Knowing each other better and feeling comfortable, they are unlikely to fight when they play togher. For example, Jun Kim, one of my close friends, exactly figure out various things about me, such as my favorite sports or entertainers, what I the most like to do in my free time, and which behaviors I hate. He always suggested an alternative way to attenuate my feeling when I was in bad mood after he made me upset because he knew what the problem was. I think such understanding was the most important component for hanging out without any conflict. This implies that playing with a close friends, they will have lower chance to fight, feeling comfortable. In addition, with a closer friend, we can have a deeper conversation than with a number of friends. This is due to the fact that if a person go out with numerous friends, a variety of conversation was made at once and it is a little bit difficult for one to concentration on every talk. For instance, when I was in fifth grade, I had seven friends in class. For early period, we got along with well without a problem. However, later on, we got a more and more conflict because we could not share all things among seven friends and also it was acutally impossible to satisfy all members' taste at the same time. One plans that was prefered by one is not acceptable for others. Hence, finally our group was divided into several sub-group which is the same as the concept of spending time with a closer friend. It was the time that I could have a deeper conversation with one close friend without a distraction. We were able to concentration on one another's talk unless other members did not intervene. This experience suggests that with one close friend, we can have better time, sharing a deep-thought. In brief, It looks that playing with only one friend is not attractive and funny. However, unlike such common idea, it is really a good way to spend valuable time, feeling comfortable without a conflict and having a deep converation. |