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Some people think that young adults should live with their parents even after they grow up if they cannot afford to live alone. However, in my opinion, I firmly believe that young adults have to live by themselves as soon as possible for the following reasons.
To begin with, young adults can be independent when they live alone. Young adults can be more depending on their parents as much longer as they live with their parents. For example, I moved out from my home to live by myself when I graduated from high school. At that time, at first, it was so difficult and uncomfortable because I had to manage all the house chores such as cooking, laundry and cleaning. However, after for a while, I got used to them and could handle all kinds of stuff by myself. Besides housework, I could come to deal with almost all kinds of works well without asking my parents. On the other hand, most of my friends who lived with family asked their parents to handle their works even when they could deal with by themselves. In retrospect, living alone was very helpful for me to grow myself up.
On top of that, young adults can experience the real life when they don't live with their family. Experience on the real life makes people to be mature. Giving the same example used above, I could experience the things my parents do. For instance, I had to rent a room and pay various kinds of fees. Moreover, I had to have a part-time job to make up my rental fee and allowance. Those experiences made me think more about the real world, and it made me study harder. This is because I could feel that it is not easy to live well without much efforts in the real world.
To conclude, I strongly prefer to live without families, since it makes young adults more independent so they can manage their own matters by themselves. Also young adults can experience the real world by living apart from their parents, and it makes them maturer. |