In today`s society, it is widely believed that people
tend to avoid experiencing difficult situation or events. However, I disagree
with this view. I firmly believe most experiences in our lives that seemed
difficult at the time become valuable lessons for the future. This is because
first, it helps people to attain personal growth, second experiencing many
difficult situation can allow people to strengthen their mental strength.
First of all,
it is beneficial to experience in our lives certain things that seemed
difficult at the time, because it helps them to attain personal growth. As people
experience and solve many difficult problems by themselves, it allows them to
attain personal growth and these problems that they have solved by themselves
will be valuable experiences or lessons for them because they can learn
valuable experiences by themselves, which no one cannot teach them about it.
For example, when I was in college, I had very hard time. Sometimes, I did not
afford to pay my tuition because I could not manage my money well. So, I decided
to register for a math competition in order to get scholarship for the rest of
my school year. I spent most of my time at library preparing for the math
competition. Finally, I was able to get scholarship and it allows me to learn
how to concentrate on a certain object, which were very beneficial experiences
for me when I prepared for other important exams.
Second,
experiencing many difficult situations can make people to strengthen mental
strength. Whenever people face unexpected problems, they are likely to be embarrassed
and confused, even causes very heavy stress. However, once they have experienced
and solved these problems by themselves, they would not be confused or
embarrassed because they have already experienced similar or more fatal
situations, which mean their mental strength is improved through difficult
situation which they have already experienced. For example, when I was in army,
I had very hard time at this time because everything was unfamiliar with me.
However, after finishing my military services, I was able to strength the state
of my mental strength, so it was very helpful for me when I have tried to adapt
my new job, which was not a familiar filed and environment for me at this time.
Thus, experiencing difficult problems have a lot of advantageous effects on our
lives.
All
things considered, it is my belief that my argument regarding this topic has
been effectively and precisely delivered with the reasons mentioned above.
Never should we forget.