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It is often said that honesty is essential element of relationship. However, in my opinion, honesty is not always most important value in many relationship but rather it can be changed in candour or frankness. This is because these are sometimes spoil one's relationship. To begin with, too much telling the truth can hurt your relationship with your friend. That is, candor, too frankness, sometimes make your friend piqued. To be specific, if your friend makes mistake, you may say to him/her that s/he is very restless. Then, what s/he thinks about you? They may think that you have such lack of courtesy. Providing that you beat around the bush, s/he might not hurt his/her feeling; thus you can avoid quarrelsome situation. Moreover, always telling the truth sometimes make a situation that your friend can break off relationship with you forever. In other words, whenever you see him/her, even after you have done with him/her, you and your ex-friend meet each other with a sense of discomfort. In my experience, when I was in elementary school, my best friend asked teacher too awkward question. I said to him he looked like idiot. Because of my saying, he got infuriated. He said that he would never regard me as his friend. Whenever I saw him, we shuned each other. Although lying is very vicious, always being honesty can turn candor and brazenness. In this regard, I think that always being frank to your friend cannot be most crucial in any relationship.
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