▶ Your Answer : Modern people said that they are too busy to have meals with their families. They insist that if they have not too much work, they could have meals with family. However, in my opinion, I disagree with this statement for two reasons. Whatever they were in circumstance, I think that it is so important that they should have meals together with families, because it is not only strengthen bonds but also teach children manners.
First of all, having meals with families helps strenghten their families bonds. They are too much time apart. Most of fathers are used to back home late night and most of sons and daughters are busy at studying. Therefore most of mothers feel lonely, so many couples are divorced and broken family relationships.
Evenworse, some mothers decided suicide. Therefore,from now on, it is needed for saving their family relationships and family bonds. If they have meals toghether, they would feel relaxed and get comfort. Getting from having meals togheter cannot compared outside activities with friends and co-workers. Take my experiences. My families are too busy, so we couldn't have meals even worse I couldn't see my father's face. So I don't know his situation and problem. One day, we decided that having meals toghether at least dinner. When we have dinner toghether, I knew that father's company problem and I gave consolation for my father, He told to me that he got relax and peace. Due to meals toghether, it mades my family relationships strenghtens and family members got comfort.
Also, it teaches children manners. Having meals with grandfathers and grandmothers, they taught their grandsons with tablemanners. It gives valuable courteousness that never learn from schools and academic class. Nowadays, I heard many news that some of youngs misbehave to adults or olds. I think that it was caused by having meals with families time was insufficient. If young person have regulary meals with family, they would learn tablemanners and courteousness toward adults. Therefore I think that having meals with families must needed.
To sum up, I disagree with this statement for reasons. Having meals with families save their family bondand gave valuable lessons to young people. For these resons, I insists that family should have meals together. |