▶ Your Answer :
Opinions might be
divided over whether it is better to make important decisions with others than
to make decisions by oneself. People from different walks of life may take
different stances on this issue. Personally, I disagree with the given statement,
and there are two reasons that could validate my position.
The first point is that the
more decisions are important the harder to make decisions. This is largely
because when we have to decide important decisions, we have to consider them
for a longtime. Also all the people have various values and interests so It
makes really hard to adjusting decisions with many people. Take my experience
as an example. When I was in high school, we had to decide what would we buy
for teachers’ day present. All the students were asserting what they want to
buy for teacher. Some students wanted to buy him a necktie, some wanted to buy
him a sweater and so on. There opinions
were so various that made a decision more difficult. As a result, we couldn’t
buy anything. In this regard, I realized why people saying ‘Too many cooks
spoil the stew’.
Another compelling reason is
that when make important decisions alone, I can make decisions carefully. These
days people tend to make decisions with others. They believe making decisions
with others can make better decisions. But soon, they realize It is not easy to
take responsibility for decisions when decisions turn out to be wrong. They
will try to avoid responsibility for wrong decisions. However, If someone make
decisions by herself, she knows that she has to take for responsibility. It
will read her to make decisions more cautiously and thoughtfully. Take best
example of this is a friend of mine. She was confused about her major whether
major in department of mechanical engineering or not. Many people advised her
to major in department of mechanical engineering. Because they just think that
major is popular. But I talked to her that you had to decide your major by
yourself. Because anyone can’t take responsibility for her decisions except for
her. Finally she decided the Department of Business Administration and happy to
studied about It. In this respect make important decisions lead to better
result.
All in all, because of the
reasons mentioned above, I firmly believe that making important decisions alone
is better than with others.
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