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People often make a large group to get along with each other, and there are many clubs to play with a lot of people. However, I found it uncomfortable and uneasy. Therefore, I agree with the topic that spending time with one or two close friends is better. This is because, getting along with many friends is hard to decide one idea that every members in a group would agree. Moreover, spending time in a small group has less possibility to quarrel.
First of all, people have thier own idea, so it is hard to unite in one idea. If there are a lot of people in a group, there would be many ideas and opinions. Therefore, it is almost impossible for them to make their opinions into one. Even if they decide the one idea, there would be other people who do not agree with that. And there are even people who follow that idea unintentionally. For example, when I was in the swimming club, all members in the club were getting along with each other all the time. However, members always have different ideas about doing something and it was hard to decide into one idea. As a result we often quarreled and begaun to seperate within the team. After all, the club members rarely got together unless there were important events in which they have no choice but to participate. Thus, we found nothing but getting along with a lot of people uncomfortable.
On top of that, spending time with one or two close friends has less possibility to be at odds with each other. People usually get together who have many things in common. Therefore, it is rare to find each other different. They have more possibility to agree with each other's idea, so they can spend their time without any conflict. Although one of them has different idea about deciding something, they can adjust their opinions by yielding each other. For instance, I often see other friends in the university who are getting along each other in a group which has two of three member. They seem that they have less conflict than other groups that have more than three members, becuase they have a lot in common. Moreover, their relationships even last after the graduation.
In conclusion, spending time with one or two friends is better than with a large group of friens. This is because a large group friends have hard time to communicate each other. On the other hand a small group can agree wtih each other well. |