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In today's globalized society, it is widely believed that it is better to say nothing than to say bad things. Some people advocate that saying nothing could maintain the relationship easily. However, I disagree with this view. I firmly believe that saying nothing is worse than saying anything bad to someone. This is because first, giving someone bad things could be an advice and second, saying nothing makes your social relationship worse.
To begin with, people usually learn from advices of other people. In other words, words that people cannot give nice to someone could be a good advice to help their future. This is largely due to the fact that people realize their bad side when other people notice them. For instance, according to a study done by the New York Times, it revealed that 90 percent of CEOs like to hear their fault from others. This is because they think that it is a chance to enhance their character. Thus, it is legitimate to say that saying bad thing to someone is finally good for the listener.
On top of that, if people do not talk a lot each other, it is difficult for them to be close.
To be specific, the best way you can be close with someone is talking a lot even though it is not about good things. I have experienced this on many occasions but the most notable example was when I was a middle school student. I did not have a lot of friends because I did not talk a lot with my classmates. If I had talked more with my friends, I would have a lot of friends. Therefore, this shows that talking a lot about any subjects is helpful to keep your relationship nice.
To sum up, it is my belief that even though people cannot say anything good to someone, it is better to say that. As stated, it is helpful for the listener and second, your social relationship be enhanced.
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