As the old saying goes, friend in need is the real friend.("freind in need, friend indeed.") Many people also (다른 예시가 없었기때문에 also가 좀 안 맞는듯 해요)experience that they have their friens they come to mind their friends at first when they need some money all of the sudden. After some reflection,(pensive thoughts/contemplation/deep thinking) however, it is (will seem)evident that borrowing money from your friends is dangerous in terms of keeping your friendship. My main reasons are as follows (the following): you consider money from your friends as the money you don't have to repay (pay back) as well as you will have a conflict with your friends and ruin the relationship. (시제도 안맞고 clear하지 못해요. -> rewrite it for the main idea of the whole essay)
To begin with, lending money from friends (빌려주는것:lending, 빌리는것:borrowing, 이 상황에서는 borrowing from 이 되겠죠?ㅎ)isn't taken seriously. A substantial number of people don't repay(앞에 반복이네요. pay back, 이라던지 새로운 표현을 쓰면 좋겠어요 ㅎ) money they borrow when they lend(again, borrow ^^) a small amount of money from friends because they think that it is acceptable not to repay between friends. Other people sometimes forget repaying money from friends on time. However, friends who gave money generally don't tell to repay because they are afraid that their relationship will be broken(break) or they don't want their friends to consider themselves as small-minded or stingy(속좁은거나 구두쇠나... 문맥상 같은 말 아닌가요? 필요하다고 생각되시면 leave it there, but if you don't cut it mercilessly!) people. To illustrate in detail, one of my friends loaned a little money from his friend several times. Even though the amount of money he borrowed was not so much, it became countless while continuing to borrow when he was in need. The friend who provided money to him didn't tell to repay, but at last he didn’t stand and asked him to repay all of the money he took with an anger. After that, he couldn’t borrow even a penny from him anymore. Accordingly, I believe that loans between friends can hurt their relationships.
On top of that, loans between friends can cause conflicts and harm friendships. Some people don't repay money they borrow from friends, and then a person who helps them can be in trouble. When he or she really needs money unexpectedly, they will tell their friends to repay the money. However, the problem happens when the friends cannot give back to them. They will fell distrust about their friends, and then their friendship will be unstable and fragile. For example, there were two people who had a big quarrel and their relationship was totally broken due to one's debt. Let's suppose that two people are A and B. A had a huge amount of debt and asked a help from B, A's best friend. B borrowed money by selling his apartment. B had to repay to A as possible as he could, but he didn't because he had another problem. A got angry at breaking their promise, and B was also furious about A didn't understand. As a result, they don't meet any more. What I want to stress is that even though friendships are strong, it is easy to disappear due to the loans between friends regardless of an amount of money.
To sum up, I strongly agree with the statement that loans between friends are hazard. This is because that people generally disregard money they lend from friends, and money from friends might cause conflicts. If you don't want to lose your friend forever, never borrow. If your friends really need your help, rather give money not expecting to repay from them. |