Between the experience and advice from friends and family, what is more valuable learning? Some people say that listening to the advice is efficient because It is hard for person to experience all things. However I disagree with this statement. The personal experience is the better way to know about life. To specific, the feelings or thought can be different each other because of the discrepancy of point of view, moreover people forget easily the lesson got by just listening.
The first reason experience is more valuable way is that all people have the different standpoint. all people think differently about one specific events. As old saying goes, thousand hearings are not worth one seeing. Do not limit your receptive capacity and imagination by passive acceptance. I would encourage you to face all new things and learn from that. For example, from long ago, I had interest about the country England. I often press to my friend who had been London to tell about England. She told the same thing each time but l was happy with thought about London. As a result, last summer vacation, I end up to traveling London which was more incredible than her stories. She sometimes complained that it is rainy too much but I love it., That's beause the rain is the signature of the London.
Getting know about something, people ask them to advise to family or friends who had experienced already. They would willing to talk about their anecdotes joyfully with sincere mind. However, it seems to me that just listening to other's story less gives lesson. That’s because listening and just imagination are less impressive than experience. When it comes to climbing mountain, do you think you could feel the suffering and satisfaction fully only by hearing? The real lesson of climbing comes from each step when you climb the rough path. Let’s take a look a study about experience. Researchers ask students of groupA to write a note a week later after hearing the interview of 산악인 And groupB to write after climbing. As a result, It astonished them. Even though groupA wrote a assay well, groupA couldn’t finish because they didn’t remember the interview. Personal experience gives B group the memorable and long lasting lesson.
As I mentioned earlier, I would encourage people to experience life actively from several reasons that people don’t feel same. Moreover, experience is more impressive then stories. There are many ways to study life, but I firmly believe that experience is the best.
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