It has been a firestrom controvery among the issue that people should lend their money to their friends.
Myriads of people assert that money is nothing compared with one's friendships. However, lending money can destroy one's friendship as it makes both borrower and lender embarassed.
Firstly, lending loan to friends can make borrowers more like being subordinated. Generally, when people borrow money they feel more guilty and humiliated especially while they are making an agreement with lender. For example, when borrower make an agreement, he or she needs to respect lender's opinion profoundly: the due date, the benefits, the reimbursement. While they are narrowing down to reach for an consentment, their relationship as a friend is being more like a master and a servant as lender is more influential to borrower as he or sheis charging borrower's life. Additionally, after they finished their deal both of them feel embarassed and feel hard to be friends as they were, during for deal, being too much harsh and realistic to each other.
Secodnly, lending loan to friends can abandon one's trust to other. Generally speaking, lending one's money to others, even if one is friend, is hard as no one knows whether one will return his or her money on time. The relationship is belng more complicated if one does not return one's friend's money on due date in real. For example, one of my great uncles, Mr.Lee lended his money to one of his friends, Mr. Kim. The loan aount was unbearable, though Mr. Lee lended them to his friends with lttle bit of hesitation. Though their friendship was not twisted that much. Their relatiionship was falling apart as borrower never return his money back. After that, both of my uncle and his friend've never talked each other not even a single call.
To sum up, dealing with money issues with friends seemingly not that perplexing as to mention with their long term tides. However, actually it can while both of them are making an agreement and borrower does not return lender's money. Thus lending money to friends should be considered profoundly.
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