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Life is full of decision.When i was young,i couldn't understand what that means. However, as time goes by,im getting understand why people said that. We need to make a decision every single time.including all of subject,such as food,job,spouser,school.. Whenever we want to do something and to live,we must make a decision even though it seems very light matter.In this sense,While we are making the decision we need,we seek other people's help to make decisions without intend and i believe people actually like to having other people's opinion to make our own decisions.
First of all,When we listen from others who had similar experience we face now,Solving the problem is going to be easier than when we do it by our self.Let me take my case as a example.When i had to choose the university at the last grade of highschool,i was having hard time to find right school for me.it was not finished easily.i was keep considering about school and major and considering every possibility that i could meet so that my decision was never made.At that time,i had a chance to see my cousin who entered university 2years before me.and she gave me some advice that to enter the university and to choose your major doesn't represent of your life direction.it could be part of it but there is ton's of opportunity to make your life regardless of your school she said.and she helped me out to choose the school according to my favor with peaceful mind.Even though i was young to make my own decision that time,i realized how much important and useful to take other's advice.
Secondly,other people make us to see the situation in objective view.I believe Our decision would work well after being objective.Some times we can not see the problem and situation rightly.It is because we are too much sensetive about our life.In this situation,making decision is not only takes so long but also could be too subjective and narrow.For example,when you just stuck in some situation you need to go through,it is easy to make a decision depending on what you see now in short-sighted.However if you take other people's opinion and make your thinking way to more further area. your decision is going to be totally different from the decision which is made by one self in urgent situation. It will have more benefits.
Lastly,having other people to make decision is good because we want to get other people's agreement naturally.Even though there is a type of people who strongly want to make their own decision regardless of others.Most of people like to have other people's opinion and want to check their decision to get other's agreement. I think it is our human nature to become someone else around us.This is also adapting in making decisions.When we make a decision with other people's agreement and support,decision could be more powerful and easy to keep it.
All thing considered,I totally agree with that statement which is people prefer to having other people to make their own decision.It has more benefit and more stable. |