Financial loans between friends can harm or damage the friendship. |
Throughout these days, materialism is getting serious and serious everyday. Whenever problems that is related to the money occur, people get aggressive and fearsome. I have heard before that some people even sell their own children if someone give them money. People think money is the only thing they need in order to live in this nascent society. As this problem goes on, people refuse to loan money to families or friends. Most of the people think relation between their family or friends could get worse because of the landed money. However, I believe loans between friends can be beneficial because of two reasons. I fully support this because a friend in need is a friend indeed. Helping friends when they are in financial problems or emergencies is what friends are meant to do for each other. If doctors' job is to cure patients who has a illness, a friend's job is to help their friends whenever they have problems. From my personal experience, I once had a time when my friend helped me financially when I was in emergency. I was bleeding really bad one time because I was fallen off from the stairs. So, she loaned me all the payments for my medical examination and medicines. I could be better because of her and I am really thankful to her for landing me a large amount of money. I wholeheartedly believe loans between friends can be a meaningful thing. Moreover, we can strengthen our relationship with friends. Some people will think that money will weaken our friendship, but it will be against that. By loaning and paying back the money, we can have more faith each other. Hence their will be no hidden secrets between us. We will understand and love each other on a deeper level. Their will be no doubts existing between us. There will be an appreciably big increase in our invisible friendship. To sum up, I strongly believe landed money between friends can actually improve their friendship. Loans will make them to be more closer and friendlier. If you focus your life only accumulating and investing money, your relationship with people could be get weaker and weaker everyday. |