Nowaday, every people have own problem, and they want to solve the problem quickly and clearly. In this progress, some people claim solving problems by using own knowledge and experience is more efficient and more helpful. However, I disagree with the idea, and I prefer to ask other people to solve problems because of these reasons: multiple perspective, improving relationship.
First, to solve problem, multiple perspective is needed and more beneficial because people cannot experience and know everything. So, if there are many people who consider about a problem, they can make multiple perspective about the problem . Furthermore, discussing to solve problems with other people is more likely to correct my mistake or errors. For instance, when I was 20, I was frustrated because I couldn't enter the universities which are I wanted to enter. So, I should find other universties. However, because I didn't know about others, I couldn't decide which university I should go. At that time, I could figure it out with my friends and seniors. Because each of them had respective information, I could unify their advices. As a result, I could make best choice, I am satisfied about my university. Like this, asking other people can make more perfect, successful solutions.
Second, people can be more familiar with others by solving one's problem together. According to the research of a reliable survey institution, people response about the question, which whether solving together can improve personal relationship or not, it can provide a chance to improve relationship. In my case, if my friend ask me something about his problem, I usually seriously consider his problem and try to solve the problem with him. And then, we can be more familiar than before the discussion, because we figure out the problem together.
In conclusion, I want to say that to solve problems more efficiently, people should discuss with others. It not only can give chances to make a more valuable solution, but also can make personal relationship harder and more familiar. |