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Borrowing money from friends harm the relationship
Who do you think at first when you need some money? Probably, it is friends. We can easily ask helps from friends because we have spent much time with them and shared a lot of things. Above all, we are friends that are bound under the friendship. However, I cannot say the right and I have strong object opinion about justification among friends. The reason is that not only does following money in friendly relationship make lose money, but also friends. In addition, people who are not familiar with refusal lend money regardless of themselves’ opinion.
The first reason is that when people borrow money from the friend, they do not consider the unexpected situations. Sometimes, there are circumstances we emergently need money such as paying tuition. Thus, we used to ask to friends without considering the later. However, if the situation that we cannot repay money by certain reasons come, the man cannot help severing contacting. It is the worst scenario. I have an experience like this situation, and I have been regretting until now. When I worked as a police officer, my very closer friend asked me to borrow some money. I had money for pay house lent, so I lent the money to the friend without any doubts. However, after two months, I was not able to see him again. He ran away from me and other friends because he could not repay money. I was really sad because I did not lose my money, but I missed my best friend. As a result, money is the key factor that destroys relationship among friends.
Furthermore, someone have no skill that properly refuses a favor. To make matter worse, they cannot say that they want to repay their money. Thus, these people meet friends’ demands, though they cannot afford to lend money. In this case, these do not want to keep the relationship because they are repeatedly concerned about whether his/her friend asks borrowing money again or not. Therefore, they are not wanted to keep the relationship no longer, and as a case may be, some of friends may want to use this propensity as an opportunity for their profits. Consequently, avoiding following money with friends is the best way that keeps good relationship among the friends