Most people prefer having others make a decision for themselves rather than deciding for themselves. Agree로 썼어요. |
It is often said that it is better for people to have others make a decision for themselves than to decide for themselves. Some people might disagree with this statement because too many opinions often interfere in one's decision-making process. However, I strongly support the idea of referring to others to make a decision because good solutions can be reached with many opinions and from an objective point of view.
To begin with, advice from others provides important information that one should take into consideration. There is a saying that two heads are better than one. This implies that one is likely to reduce the chance of making a mistake because others may think of factors that have been overlooked. For example, during high school, I wanted to buy a car which I saw on street. Since I had earned a lot of money, I was able to afford it. However, I asked my father whether it would be good to buy it or not, and he suggested that I should compare its gas mileage with other cars'. It was an important factor for me to consider with the price of gas soaring at that time. Also, one of my friends who had the same car told me that the car was easily broken down, and therefore he should have spent a large amount of extra money to fix it. Thanks to the valuable information, I was able to make a wise decision not to buy it. If it had not been for the advice, I might have bought the wrong car.
In addition, an opinion from a third party is more objective. It is obvious that a person who is closely related in a problem is more likely to be emotional. Thus, it is easy to make a mistake. For instance, Ho Jung, my brother, fell in love with a girl. Since, she was the first girl that he was so serious about, he overlooked her flaws such as being ill mannered to people, arrogant for her career, and dishonest about her life. In contrast, his friends convinced him to break up with her by telling him what they really thought of her. Finally, he was able to see the negative person that she was. If it had not been for his friends, he would have suffered from her.
In brief, I firmly believe that people should ask for advice before they make any crucial decision in order to hear all possible scenarios and to receive opinions from unbiased people. That is why most poeple discuss problems with others to be better informed and to make a wiser decision.
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