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Some parents may argue that they should pay their children by the grade which their children achieve in school. However, I have a different idea. I believe that this behavior is not good for their children in a various ways.
To begin with, children are highly affected by their parent's complement and praise. When children see their parents evaluate them by grade, they will work hard on their school assignment. This cause a bad result, Children will totally trust on their work. When they get bad grade, they get sad and can get psychological problem such as serious depression. This will affect their personality badly. Normal kids will turn to a children who get easily ashamed and very shy. For example, my friend, Sarah was very active student. Her parents were very strict on her school grades. She was highly stressed all the time. On her final exam, she got low score on her test. She was very disappointed about herself and become very shy girl. She had hard time to fix her personality.
In addition, most parents want their children to get a grade in their school. However, making their children to get a good grade by giving money is very bad way. Money can lead their kids in a good way or bad way. When children learn the value of money by their parents’ action, it can cause serious problem. Students will try to work hard only to get money from their parents. They will stop thinking about their future from success in school. They will try to get a good grades only to get money from their parents. This will raise student in a very useless adults. Also, according to the research from Korea’s Children Education Society, it shows that students who get paid from their parents by their grades have lower score than who are not.
To sum up all, the attitude of parents which is giving money to their children by their grades in school is not helpful to their children. It can cause their kids to have psychological problems and raise their children in a person who does not have goal. |