Some people try to solve problems for themselves due to their strong characteristic. I want to mention "solid characteristic" as a reason why some people do not ask a help for advice. On the contrary, some people tend to ask other people for learning when they face some problems. In my case, I agree with the latter opinion of asking other people for advice.
In my experience, I would face some trouble because sometimes I was so stubborn in doing my works that I did not find a way for the trouble. One time, I had serious injury on my ankle during a soccer playing. After being the injury, I did not go hospital since I just thought that it will be okay good. Due to my being stubborn for 2months, it did not show progress in recovering, From my friends and family scolding, I finally received treatment, but it took 3months for the full recovery. If I ask other people for profession answer or agree with the advice of my friends and family, I would cope with it for just 2 weeks. It was a evident my fault from my pride and exclusive attitude.
After the learning, I realized that it is better to ask help or advice when strange problems happen. One has only his or her experience and thought. If one only rely on these small knowledges, he or she would not make a good decision in various situation. Around us, there are many different kinds people from diverse background and occupations. If we seek help to other when we meet difficult or unfamiliar problems, they can provide exact answer. In a case of friends, they can give more subjective answer, In a case of elders or teacher, they can assist us by leading a good way from what they have been experienced.
To sum up, beyond question and hesitation, I believe that it is much more wise way to figure out problems that we ask a piece of advice for problems. Because they can give and provide definite answer and diverse method for them. |