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It is often said that parents should make a decision their children’s future. This is because unlike children’s narrow view, parents wisely define their future direction through their diverse experiences. However, in my point of view, I disagree with this idea because actual children’s dreams are differ from parent’s desire and making a decision helps children to approach their choices quickly.
First of all, the children’s decisions for their future differentiate from the parent’s thinks for their children’s future. It is common that parent’s desires for their children’s future defined from the parent’s priorities such as fame and money for the future job. A gap between these parent’s opinion and children’s choice actually is considerable huge because children’s choices just are defined from their education or experiences. This difference let their children’s interests drop.
In addition, the decision by children’s opinion plays a significant role in approach their children’s dream quickly. It is obvious that the decision on their own stimulates their will. This is because it induced their interests and talents and also they can enjoy doing any hard-working created by the choices. For example, Teasoo, one of my friends, have worked at an International organization. The job was defined by his parent’s opinion. Now, he doesn’t enjoy working and he just do due to his responsibilities. On the other hand, in my case, I’m researcher in space system areas. This job made a decision by myself. Now, I try to do my best for improving my ability because the motivation spurs my steady hard-working.
In brief, the children’s future should be designed by themselves without any other opinion. This is because of the gap between children and parent opinion and boosting children’s will. |