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There is an ongoing debate as to whether the best way for one to be happy is to let others be happy or not. Logically, people who grew up from diverse environments maintain various understanding towards the issue. In my opinion, letting others be happy makes me not always happy for two reasons. Firstly, people who do not have a feeling of happiness are not happy. Secondly, others’ happiness becomes unhappiness to me.
The first reason from my obvious view is that unhappy people cannot be a happy person even if they make others happy. This is because some people have jobs to make others happy, and they can give others happiness regardless of their emotion. The best example of this is movie stars. We really enjoy watching movies because the movies allow us to forget all worries from a hectic life and the hustle and bustle of life. In this For this reason, we always feel happiness when we watch the stars on TV and movies. However, according to the Korea daily newspaper’s research in 2010, most of movies stars suffered from depression. Although the movie stars is to let the public be happy, they are leading an unhappy life. As it appears in this example, no matter how we can make others happy, we are able to be enough unhappy.
In addition, it is not that we are always happy in all cases, if ever we are let others be happy. As it were, we can give up our happiness for others’ happiness in some cases. It is not that results that everyone can be satisfied come always???. The example of my brother supports my argument. Last year, my brother fell in love with a girl in his company. He right away confessed his love to the girl, and they became a couple. After several months, they broke up because the girl was in love with other man. My brother threw up everything and wished her to be happy with the man. However, my brother had spent hard time for a year. Therefore, we cannot consider that letting others to be happy absolutely guarantees ones’ own happiness in this reason.
To sum up, I strongly believe that other’s happiness can be unhappy to someone else for the following reasons. First, that I can make others happy do not mean that I become happy from it. Second, others’ happiness can be unrelated with my happiness.
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