It is often said that being successful plays a pivotal role in being happy as it has no stress. My view, however, is that when people fail they need to have an optimistic view and being happy for two main reasons: through a positive viewpoint, people can develop in order not to fail again and change failures to another chances.
To begin with, people can develop with an optimistic view in failure. It is common that people go through failure such as a rejection from collages, companies, and blowing up business. At this time, if people stay in disappointment, there would be no development in life. Thus, even if failures, with an optimistic view of life, individuals try to nurture themselves. It would result in success. For example, my friend, John, experienced blowing his business up and lost his all money he had earned. However, reflecting his work and having a positive view made him to overcome failure and raise his business again. On the other hand, Soo, one of my best friends, was rejected by university entrance where she really wanted to get. It discouraged her so much, she felt pessimistic in life, and finally gave collage entrance up. This shows that how an optimistic view work out and make individual to develop in a better way.
In addition, through a positive view people can have other chance when they fail. It is obvious that stress devastates individual's health not only physically but also mentally, and losing health gets worse in situation. Therefore, it is important for people to have an optimistic view in failure, and which allows people to have other chances. According to an article reported by the Korean Daily Newspapers in 2007, most successful celebrities experienced adversities in life. At first they suffered from stressed out, trying to overcome it with a positive view. As a result, they met another chance, leading to a current successful position. This implies that failures are common to people, and thus people need to change hardships into changes through an optimistic view of life. |