Opinions might be divide regarding whether listening advice from friends and family is the best way to learn about life. I strongly disagree with the above statement for the following two reasons. First, experience is better than just listening advice. Second, it can be bring about limited thinking.
To begin with, I think that people can find various helpful advices through experiences. When people have experienced in some ways such as in person and from other materials, they are capability to know them in very long time. Take my case for example. When I was younger, I did not know what I should majoring in university. At that time, I attended a camp in university, I could know about each majors’ characteristics. I impacted a lot and choose well for my future. Like my story, experience affects to people a lot and keep it very long time, even now. Whether people face to what they should consider, I commend just do it and think deeply. In this regard, I may conclude that people can learn about life from experiences of each person.
Also, listening advice from adjacent people cause limited thinking. Friends and family are always live together. They have most of same view. On the other words, they do not influence very deeply. Of course, parents educates their son and daughter but as they grow-up, just saying to them some advices is not good way to learn about life. In complexity society, there are many unpredicted circumstances. It’s impossible to know about all of them. According to a survey of released from Korean national survey center, most people usually grow with listening some advices from parents and friends. However, they felt what it can be big help to live when they are adults. Therefore, listening advice can cause very limited thinking.
To sum up, In my opinion, listening advice is not the best way to learn about life. There is other method such as experiencing in person. It can effect a lot and for a long time. Also, getting advice by listening of nearly people can be very limited thinking and behavior. Therefore, people should meet various ways to live well their life.
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