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According to many psychology studies, children are influenced by imitation and habits. Especially parents can be the closest people to them and they spend a bulk of time together. So kids learn a lot from parents. However, not every parent has positive influences on their children. In this regard, I am against the idea that parents are the best teacher. First, parents can make mistakes. Second, children tend not to listen to what their parents say in one's adolescense.
To begin with, the behavior of parents is not always right. In other words, some parents don't follow what they say themselves. To illustrate, we know that smoking harms people, but some parents probably warn it to their kids but the parents smoke. That can be a extreme case but some just behave without any consciousness , since they don't know how important their role are. For example, one of my friends is wealthy but stingy. She tries to save money all the time whatever she does. Even at her workplace, she attempts to economize the stationary items such as paper, clips, pens etc. Once she brought several pens belongs to her company and gave it to us. I asked her why she took it. She said why not, my mom often carries something to eat from her work with her. I couldn't say anything but I realized that parent's bad habit can have negative effect on their kids.
Futhermore, not every kid listens to their parents well. This is due to the fact that especially young adults have rebellion to their parents. For instance, one of my students from work is 13 years old. I once have opportunity to talk to her. She seemed to be a little bit depressed so I asked her. What she said that I don't know why I hate my parents. In adolescence, it is hard to control one's mind so even though their parents try to help their kids out but children might not listen to them. Therefore, it will be hard to be a good teacher.
As mentioned above, it is not easy for parents to be a good teacher. This is due to the fact that kids don't follow parent's instruction and parents can not make right decisions. Thus I don't agree that parents are the best teacher.
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