Relationship between parents and children is significantly important because through good relationship parents can have positive effect on their children. However, in modern society, it is true that their relationship have become weak generally and also parents have a difficulty to understand their children. The rationale behind this is that improvement of the internet. And the other reason is that time that parents and children spend together have been decreased.
First of all, improvement of the internet make parents difficult to understand their children. Generally, old people are awkward to use internet because the internet was not in the time when they were young, while children are well skilled to employ it. Everyday, through the internet, children can read a wide range of articles such as sports, entertainment, and games and also they enjoy chatting with their friends or even strange someone with their own special words. These children's habitats on internet enlarge gap between parents and them. The best example of this is my young brother. Everyday, he used to log in game on web-site and enjoy playing it with friends that he made on web-site. He told my mother about game items and characters that he bought on game, but my mom used to ignore his saying because it was unfamiliar with my mom. Even, sometimes, I could not understand his saying correctly. I think this is big problem because
In addition, the other reason that parent have a difficulty to apprehend their children is that parents and their children spend most of their time out of home. In the past, uncomfortable transportation system limited their activities out of home. However, as transportation system increasingly improves, people started to stay out of home frequently. Thus, parents and children are likely to pay attention to their personal business. For example, according to a report, seventy percent of parents who have children who are older than nine years old, are likely to have jobs and their children spend most of their time in school. They said that parent have insufficient time to talk and share ideas with their children because after jobs, they were so tired that they went straight to bed and before jobs they were busy to prepare going to workplace. This clearly demonstrates that parent's busy lives have negative effect on relationship with their sons.
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