As a result of a developement of the internet, It is become more convenient to access informations. But when it comes to life related subject, I strongly agree that listening to the advice of close person is more beneficial than other methods. Because, A family member or a friend is a person who knows me very well. so they can advise appropriate recommand for me. and There are large amounts of distorted informations on other methods such as the internet or even books
First of all, familiar people understand my favor and tendency well. so they can advise appropriate recommandation. Suppose that, if I suffer from choosing company where to join, It is obvious that counsel of a person who know my characteristic well will be more beneficial than informations on the internet from a stranger. They even could predict near future after decision. Such as relationship with co-worker, stress from commute distance and so on. although statements from renowned person, it would be too general, not to specific.
Furthermore, In spite of flood of informations, also there are exceed of distorted informations. this side effects encourage us to make wrong decision. Studies have indicated that People tend to easily accept favorable data than that of impartial ones. As an old sayng goes "Medicins advantageous for body is bitter.", We have to distinguish fitable informations from view of non-discrimination. and also never rely on exaggerated, or deceiving data. But It is always not only difficult but also time consuming.
In conclusion, because of several reasons that their ability to consider my personallity and serve me a valid councels. and also there are too many wrong informations to distinguish, To experience life indirectly, We have to listen to close acquaintances councels. |