There are pros and cons on the question whether an important decision should be made alone. Some people might think that people should make an decision themselves because they are the best people who know themselves well and what is the best for them. However, I strongly believe that important decisions should be made with various people who is near you. This is because they can give you various suggestions and you can feel heavy burdensome.
Evidently, various people surrounding you can give you diverse solutions with various perspectives. Each person have had particular experience in each life and they have developed their veiws in different ways when making a decision. Then when you have to decide significant problems, you can get various suggestions with various views. It enables you to make optimal decision. According to a research conducted by Lee Ju mi, one of the famous social psychologists in Korea, when people have to make decision, they tend to find the decitions with other people who know well facing problmes rather than make a decision themselves. In fact, people who made decisions with others have a more 43.2% increased chance of making the right decisions than people who make a decision themselves. It shows that making decision with others can reduces the chance of fail about decisions they made. There is another reason that people should not make decisions alone.
Obvisouly, people can share the responsibility about the result of decision with others who make a decision together. Suppose that there are two person. They are all in the position of making a decision. One person usually makes a decision alone about important problem. When the result of the decision was bed, all the responsiblity is on he or she. He or she never blame on someone else and have tremendous burden. It can negative results in the accident that he or she think anout suicide. On the other hand, the other one are always with others when making a decision. Although he or she needs many times to collect the feasible solutions from various people, she or he do not need to feel a tremendous burden. If the bad result of their decision occurs, they can share responsiblity and solve the bad situation efficietly together.
I am not saying that all the decision should be made with other people. However, people should not overlook the advantage of various people' devision, when they make a decision. |