Happiness can be more valuable when sharing it. When people work out for other's happiness as well as their own happiness, their lives become worth. Thus, I believe that making others happy is people's own happiness eventually. This is because by helping others, people can have good relationship with them. Also, when people help others, they can realize the real meaning of love.
First of all, by making others happy, people can have better relationship with them. It is true that everyone likes those who make them happy. Therefore, people who can make others happy are likely to have a wide range of friends and their lives in schools or companies become happy. The best example of this is my old friend. My friend is humorous and funny and so everyday, many classmates gather around him and listen to his exciting and funny saying. In my point of view, his stories and episodes are so exciting that I actually envy him. Thanks to his ability to make others exciting, he can win popularity and recognition from classmates and change his girl friends every semester. His life seems so happy and exciting.
In addition, when we are dedicated to other's lives, we can realize the real meaning of love. You will admit that when dominating fund for poor people who live in poor countries or participating in volunteer work , you can feel happy. Although our money decrease and we should experience hardships, we can feel that real happiness enter our mind. For example, when I went to India to help poor people, I was suffered from hot weather, dirty environment, and food. At first, I missed my home with regret and wanted to go back home but when I watched children who are happy due to given one piece of bread from us, I changed my mind. I realize that the time to just enjoy my life in my country can be used in a valuable way for poor children and I decided to stay in the India for one year against my original expectation. Though volunteer program, I could realize the real value of life in India. |