Many people are estimated by their first impressions in the world. This causes that a person cannot exert their talents before they do anything. However, I definitely believe that most of the people have their possibility unlike their first impressions. This is because fairly many people tend to conceal their talent at first owing to their characteristic. In addition, people apt to assess first impressions with their appearance, although there are no relation appearance with talent.
First of all, many people have tendency that they would like to disguise their talent at first. In my country, South Korea, most of the people are shy and they apt to camouflague their abilities. So it is very difficult to evaluate one's talent at only first meeting. For example, my older brother is very shy guy so that he cannot introduce himself well. This causes people around him to consider him having a bad impression so he could not be employed at first year of his job interviews. However, he has a lot of ability in his special, once he is engaged his company, he has appraised his talent well.
Secondly, people tend to think that one's appearance is equal to his/her first impression. This is because appearance would express one's surface aura. However, people should not estimate others ability with their appearance. Because the appearance does not mean his/her talent. In my experience, one of my part-time job collegue does not have smart appearance. So most of other collegues ignored him first, but he has great talent of our job. Now, he is the leader position in our section. My collegues who ignored him first regrets their conducts.
In conclusion, first impressions do not tell a lot about people although many people are estimated by their first impressions in the world. This is because many people tend to hide their ability at first due to their characteristic. In addition, people apt to assess first impressions with their appearance, although there are no relation appearance with talent.
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