People are faced with a lot of things to make decisions in their entire life. Some things are trivial but others are so important that they might change their life. Personally, I strongly believe the idea that people should make important decisions with others for the following reasons. First, people cannot experience all things in their life so they are possible to make an error. Moreover, people cannot be a professional in all area.
To begin with, it is possible for people's experience to be limited. People cannot go everywhere and cannot do everything because they live in limited time. We are imperfect human beings since we are fettered by time and space. So it is wise to rely on other's experience which is more superior to us. For example, I had to make a crucial decision with regard to getting married. At that time, I asked my parent to give me an advice because they have more years of experience than me. The result is so wonderful that I always require an advice for my parent whenever I am faced with something to make important decisions.
In addition, we cannot dig deep in all area. That's mean that since we are not an experts in every department, we should ask people who are specialist in that area for help. For instance, when it comes to finance matter, we can get a helpful advice when we ask it to financial expert. And when we are confronted with emergency situation like life-hazardous things, we can rely on doctor's specialized knowledge. As this illustrate well, we can reach in deep position in all field when we have to make an important decision as long as we use other's depth intelligence.
In conclusion, I strongly suggest that people use other's help when they have something important decision. Fist, since we are incomplete human being, it is wise for us to rely on other's experience. Second, we can be an expert in every area since we can use other's professional wisdom when we request help for them. With this method, we can avoid the side effect of decision with alone.
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