Even though many people say that first impression concludes all things, I think that first impression don't doesn't give all things innate to people. That is because people don't know their exactly abilities and characteristics of person in a just a few minutes. I briefly show two reasons below to support my opinion.
First, ability is difficult to know in advance than compare to any other things. Knowing the ability needs cost of time or money. So when people work together, they know their ability. After people get to know each other and exchange the opinion, then people find co-worker's ability. For example, in recent time, most of the companies use internship program rather than they guarantee their employment by the death of them. Using this institution, company can know the ability of the employee. Because companies don't want to spend high cost to hire the new man who has just the first impression, even though someone pass the test of from the company. In this reason, ability of a person is not shown by the first impression.
Secondly, characteristic is now known by the first impression. Because many people have try smily or good face each other in the first meeting each other. however they are not always have these faces. For example nowadays, many married people get divorced, that and this is because the difference of trait. When they start love together love each other, they try to give partner only bright, positive, and good impressions for love. However, they are human beings, so they express anger resulted from stress related from jobs and relationships. In this time, they know each other exactly like trait. For this reason, I think that first impression doesn't give the hint for trait.
To summary My conclusion is that, Therefore, Thus.. people should not conclude the person by their first impression. Although the first impression has a lot of influence, people cannot meet the ability and characteristic. of person exactly.
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