Even though many people say that first impression conclude all things. I think that first impression don't give all things innate to people. That is because people don't know exactly ability and characteristic of person in just a few minutes. I briefly show two reasons below to support my opinion.
First, ability is difficult to know in advance than any other things. Know the ability needs cost of time or money. So people work together, they know the ability. After people get to know each other and exchange the opinion, then people find co-worker's ability. For example, in recent time, most of the companies use internship program rather than they guarantee their employment by the death of them. Using this institution, company can know the ability of employee. Because company don't want to spend high cost to hire the new man who has just first impression, even though someone pass the test of company. In this reason, ability of person is not shown by the first impression.
Secondly, characteristic is now known by first impression. Because, many people have smile or good face, in the first meeting each other, however, they are not always have these face. For example, nowadays, many married people get divorced, that is because the difference of trait. When they start love together, they try to give partner only bright, positive, and good impression for love. However, they are human beings, so they express anger resulted from stress related job and relationships. In this time, they know each other exactly like trait. For this reason, I think that first impression doesn't give the hint for trait.
To summary, people should not conclude the person by first impression. Even though first impression has a lot of influence, people cannot ability and characteristic of person exactly.
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